Jenn Abbatiello: Parenting and the stigma surrounding cannabis

How we talk to our kids about what is going on in the world right now, we can unintentionally pass on our own anxiousness. For example, I work with some families who say their kids are very anxious and worry about dying and their parents dying, etc. We are living in a time where the media is full of stories of COVID deaths, daily counts on cases, war – some kids have had first hand experience with someone close to them dying from COVID. Though I am not a trained psychologist and its important to seek medical help if needed, I do help families talk to their kids about their anxious feelings. If we just suppress them and don’t work through them or make sense of them, they can escalate. I love the quote by Gabor Mate “It’s not so much what happens to us but how we make sense of it.” Helping our kids make sense of their feelings and what’s going on is one of the best strategies to deal with anxious emotions.

We need to be careful with projecting extremes. For example, I remember when I was nursing – and you always read that you shouldn’t drink while nursing – I was talking to my doctor about it and she said “they share that for the minority of mothers who will be completely wasted and pass out and can drop their child or be unsafe.” I feel it is the same with cannabis, I’m not suggesting parents get stoned. The reason education is needed is to better understand the right dosing and options for consumption for what you are trying to achieve. How to consume responsibly. I personally am not comfortable smoking weed in front of my kids but am fine having a cannabis cocktail or other edible. We don’t judge people that drink wine. It’s the same thing. Except without the hangover.

Cannabis is misunderstood. The perception is if you use it, you’re a stoner. But the same doesn’t hold true if you drink alcohol. No one calls you an alcoholic, even if you say, “man I need a drink right now.” Acknowledging through education the benefits of using cannabis and comparing it to other alternatives for managing stress and anxiety and how that contributes to your performance as a parent has been helpful for me. I feel that now that there are more options for consuming cannabis, like capsules, beverages, edibles for example that it will become more mainstream. Cannabis cocktails are a great example. What I always explain to the parents I work with is if your cup isn’t full and you aren’t in a good place, it is really hard to parent the way you want. Becoming the parent we want to be starts with taking care of ourselves so if cannabis is part of that self-care there is no judgement.

What we need to remember is that EVERYONE has an opinion. Ultimately some of those people’s opinions we value and others we don’t. We need to learn to trust ourselves and when we are faced with differing opinions, go inside instead of out to figure out what makes sense for you. We are all different, our kids are all different. There is no one size fits all. Cannabis might be a good choice for me, maybe it isn’t for another mom or dad and that’s ok. Learning to respect one another despite our differences is so important and this is something we try to instill in our children.

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What a Veterinarian Wants Pet Owners to Know About CBD

June 22, 2026

If you've spent any time around pet owners lately, you've probably heard the conversation. A friend mentions CBD for their aging dog. Someone at the dog park talks about using it as part of their pet's wellness routine. Before long, everyone is asking the same question: Is CBD something pet owners should be paying attention to? At Lolly, we've noticed growing curiosity around CBD and pets, so we recently spoke with Dr. Sarah Silcox, DVM, CVA, CVSMT, Founding Director and President of the Canadian Association of Veterinary Cannabinoid Medicine (CAVCM), to learn more about what pet owners should know before exploring cannabinoid products. The organization is dedicated to advancing education, research, and evidence-based cannabinoid medicine within veterinary practice across Canada. One thing became clear very quickly; the conversation around CBD for pets is growing, but it's also more nuanced than many people realize. First Things First: Talk to Your Veterinarian Before introducing any cannabinoid product into your pet's routine, Dr. Silcox emphasizes the importance of having an open conversation with your veterinarian. Many pet owners still feel hesitant bringing up cannabis because of the stigma that has surrounded it for decades. But cannabis and CBD use are important pieces of your pet's health history, and your veterinarian should know if you're considering them. Your veterinarian can help identify potential drug interactions, discuss appropriate product types, and provide guidance based on your pet's individual needs. The best conversations happen when pet owners are honest, informed, and willing to ask questions. Understanding CBD and Pets CBD, or cannabidiol, is one of many naturally occurring compounds found in the cannabis plant. Unlike THC, CBD does not produce intoxicating effects or a "high." That's one reason many pet owners become interested in CBD products in the first place. Researchers have also identified an endocannabinoid system in animals, including dogs and cats, which is why cannabinoids continue to be an area of growing interest within veterinary medicine. Is It Legal? Is It Safe? One of the first things Dr. Silcox encourages pet owners to understand is where their products are coming from. In Canada, cannabis products sold through licensed producers and provincially licensed retailers must meet strict Health Canada requirements. These products are tested for: ● Microbial contamination ● Pesticides ● Heavy metals ● Residual solvents ● Accurate cannabinoid content This level of testing provides transparency and consistency that many unregulated products simply cannot offer. If a company cannot clearly explain what's in its product or provide testing information, that should raise questions. When it comes to cannabinoids, quality and safety should always come before marketing claims. Choosing the Right Product for Your Pet With so many options available, selecting a cannabinoid product can feel overwhelming. According to Dr. Silcox, there are several important questions worth asking before making a decision. Do You Trust the Company? Look for companies that are transparent about how their products are made and willing to answer questions about ingredients, testing, and cannabinoid content. Trust matters. Companies that openly share information and support ongoing education and research are often a good place to start. Is the Format Appropriate? Oils and tinctures are among the most commonly used cannabinoid formats because they allow for more precise dosing and flexibility. Capsules can also be convenient once an appropriate dose has been established. Products marketed as pet treats may seem appealing, but quality and consistency can vary significantly. Human edibles such as gummies, chocolates, cookies, and baked goods are generally not recommended for pets due to the risk of accidental overconsumption and the possibility of ingredients that may be harmful to animals. Understanding the Entourage Effect One concept Dr. Silcox discussed is something known as the entourage effect. Rather than focusing on a single cannabinoid, researchers believe that cannabinoids and other naturally occurring cannabis compounds may work together in ways that influence the overall experience. This is why some people explore products that contain more than just isolated CBD. Depending on the situation and veterinary guidance, some products may contain: ● CBD isolate ● Hemp-derived cannabinoid blends ● CBD-dominant formulations ● Products containing carefully controlled amounts of both CBD and THC Because THC affects animals differently than humans, any product containing THC should only be considered with guidance from a veterinarian experienced in cannabinoid medicine. Start Low and Go Slow One phrase repeatedly emphasized in veterinary cannabinoid medicine is: "Start low and go slow." Every pet is different. Factors such as size, age, health conditions, medications, and individual sensitivity can all influence how an animal responds to cannabinoids. While cannabis is generally well tolerated, side effects, THC intoxication, and drug interactions can occur. Starting with conservative amounts and adjusting gradually under veterinary guidance helps create a safer experience overall. Be an Advocate for Your Pet Dr. Silcox also encourages pet owners to be active participants in the conversation. If you're interested in cannabinoid medicine, do your research. Ask questions. Bring information to your veterinary appointments. Many veterinarians did not receive formal education on cannabinoid medicine during their training. As research continues to grow, more veterinary professionals are seeking additional education in this area. The more informed the conversation, the better equipped everyone is to make thoughtful decisions. If you're considering CBD for your pet, don't be afraid to bring it up. Your veterinarian may be able to provide valuable guidance, discuss potential risks, and help you determine whether cannabinoids are appropriate for your pet's specific situation. Looking for More Information? For pet owners interested in learning more about veterinary cannabinoid medicine, the Canadian Association of Veterinary Cannabinoid Medicine (CAVCM) offers educational resources for both veterinarians and pet families. Their website includes information on cannabinoid medicine, frequently asked questions, current research, and guidance on discussing cannabis with your veterinarian. Frequently Asked Questions Will CBD make my pet high? No. CBD itself is non-intoxicating. THC is the cannabinoid associated with intoxicating effects, which is why THC exposure in pets requires special caution. Can I give my pet human cannabis products? Not all human cannabis products are appropriate for animals. Ingredients, potency, and formulation all matter. Always consult your veterinarian before introducing a product intended for human consumption. Why do veterinarians recommend starting low? Animals can respond differently to cannabinoids based on factors such as size, health status, and medications. Starting low allows for careful observation and adjustment. Should I tell my veterinarian if I'm considering CBD? Absolutely. CBD and cannabinoid use are important parts of your pet's health history, and your veterinarian can help identify potential risks, interactions, or considerations. Final Thoughts Interest in CBD and cannabinoid medicine for pets continues to grow, but informed decisions matter. As Dr. Sarah Silcox emphasized, choosing quality products, involving your veterinarian, understanding proper dosing, and focusing on safety are all important pieces of the conversation. Cannabinoid medicine is an evolving field, and while there's still much to learn, one thing remains constant: When it comes to our pets, education is always the best place to start. Better things are blooming at Lolly. 🌿 Editor's Note: Special thanks to Dr. Sarah Silcox and the Canadian Association of Veterinary Cannabinoid Medicine (CAVCM) for helping advance education and research in veterinary cannabinoid medicine. This article is intended for educational purposes only and is not veterinary medical advice. Pet owners should consult their veterinarian before introducing CBD or cannabinoid products into their pet's routine.